Advice, Clingy, Confidence, Insecurity, Relationships, Smart Girls / Wednesday, July 27th, 2011 / BY / 0 comments

Clingy Women Vs Confident Women

When it comes to a man’s dating experiences, he will deal with the Big “C’s” (and no, I’m not talking about cancer or c*nts.) at least once or twice in his romantic entanglements and those big C’s are clingy women and confident women.  Obviously when it comes to pursuing a free dating relationship, men would rather much prefer going out with a confident woman.  However, these two extremes both come with their drawbacks.

Here are some personality traits that you will have to deal with when dating a very clingy woman versus a very confident one.

Clingy Woman: She is very emotionally weak.
Confident Woman:  She is very hard to read. She is only easy to read when she is drunk.

Clingy Woman: Calls you all the time and won’t stop calling until you pick up the phone.
Confident Woman: Will text you occasionally.

Clingy Woman  Has no game whatsoever. She has a very hard time not wearing her heart openly on her sleeve.
Confident Woman: Like a bachelor, she knows how to play the game and is a realist.

Clingy Woman: She is always nervous and wondering what you are thinking and if you are into her.
Confident Woman: She is wondering if she could do better.

Clingy Woman: She tells you how she feels for you very early on. She is intense.
Confident Woman: She only showers you with back handed compliments and does not like PDA.

Clingy Woman: She says “I love you” far too soon.
Confident Woman: She will wait until you say it and even then, she might not say it back to you.

Clingy Woman: You constantly have to hold her hand and make her feel loved.
Confident Woman:  She bitches about her problems but never turns on the waterworks.

Clingy Woman: She is easily hurt and affected by criticism.
Confident Woman: She is easily upset over criticism.

It is important to know that dating each of these types of women comes with its baggage.  On one hand, you have a woman who needs a man to validate her existence and then on the other hand, you have a woman who doesn’t need a man to be happy.  If you are pursuing a healthy relationship with a woman, it’s best to avoid these extremes altogether.  You want a woman who has good head on her shoulders and is self-confident without being too cocky.

You want a woman who wants your affection without having to change her schedule to be with you.  Don’t go for the overly clingy or overly confident.  Instead pursuing the “overly-chill.”


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